I guess after reading my brother journey on his personal website nghianguyen.com I sort of understand whats he’s going through. Hes simply going through what I was going through before. My path was different because not every breakup is peaceful like his. Sometimes breakup end up bad and some end up being good friends. My breakup wasn’t like his. Seven years relationship wasn’t easy to let go but I had to let it go due to distance. After a few hours reading my brother journal I feel sad for him. No matter what he said about me I still love him dearly. I love both of my brothers but I guess Vietnamese traditions with a bit of spicy American melting-pot is tough to live him. I would love to have dinner with my brother at a Chinese buffet and let the past go by, but its sad to see that my brother will not accept it.
I cannot force whats been done, but just think of the past and live the present. Just memories of brothers sitting together like kids.