Vo Cardin ham choi lam! =My Ex-wife loves to Party = Full Custody
Its been sometimes now that I haven’t write journals in Vietnamese so today journal is going to be in my horrible Vietnamese language. So those who cant read in Vietnamese I’m sorry. For those who can read Vietnamese I’m sorry too because my grammer and spelling isn’t perfect but I’ll try my best.
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Well I spent majority of my time today listening to music while I post up business cards for Geary. There’s this song that I listen over 2 hours worth of it. It never got boring because when it comes across the lyrics I posted below it allow me to forgive my wife. Though she doesn’t answer my phone call I totally understand because she’s influence. If you understand it then read it. I won’t translate everything. The highlighted words will be translated.
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Today was another rough day! Papers were late in the morning again! I didn’t start the route till 4:30 on a Friday! I rushed through the route and finished by 7am. After finishing the route I went home and lay down to sleep. By 11am my father called and ask what’s I’ve been up to because he’s getting worries. Other days I call every few hours to check on my son but today was different. My father instead updated me on what he did. My son woke up really early in the morning at 8. My dad made rice with eggs and soy sauce for my son to eat. After that they went to Starbucks coffee.
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Today is my son’s birthday! I nearly almost forgot. After doing nearly half of my morning routes. I thought of my son for a second then remember its September 2, 2009 already. Quickly I called Melissa and ask if she could take over my traffic this morning. Boy without Melissa help I would probably be out of job by now. With the constant days of taking my mother in law to the doctors and appointments it would leave me with no job.
Today was a tought day to get by. From time to time I miss my wife. Miseed the time when she first fell in love with me. As time got hard we all change. But we both couldn’t get along because hard time change people. We all need our space to breath. Lately I been walking with Alfred alot down by the waterfront. I discovered there so many things out there that I haven’t seend. I been in Bellingham since 2002 when I came up to continue my college career.
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Now! Don’t think I’ll let you guys go unnoticed of what’s going on through my hard times. The last two days I been going around posting up Comcast flyers on doors to help Geary out. He’s working his butt off trying to get his new job high up there. Since he work on commission base as well its important for Geary to me massive sales. So he’s using his unique ideas to promote the business.tra work to To support my son I’m doing extra work and jobs people offer to pay my lawyer fees. I realized over this whole problems I’m going to. Being a man and not be in the abuse condition that I was in we must stand up for our self. Most important of all even if I continue to believe the dream of a family map I should always set money aside to do things I want. Since I got married all my checks went to my wife so the one that money is my wife. My wife and her father has a checking account together. While my wife and I have no account together. All my checks I made are deposited by my father-in-law. Continue reading →
Sorry guys!
Its been nearly three days now that I haven’t wrote anything in my journals.I been trying to cope with the lost of the dream and of course the gain of a son. So many things going on my life right now that I cant really type whats going on wiht my life. This is an update to let all those who read my journals that I’m still alive.
I’ll update you guyys sometimes soon about whats going on. Today isnt a day for me to talk. Just tired lately …been sleeping alot and taking massive walks.
See ya
Cardin
Abuse
Today I like to focus my chat on abuse. I guess abuse can take many forms and angle. But before we go into that I’ll start off with what I did today. After being 5 years in this abuse relationship I ignore the fact because I want to hold onto the family.
Today is like every other day of my life for the last two years. I wake up and head to work then head back home. (eh typical morning) . After getting some sleep I caught some email from Anna and decided that its about time I do something and not ignore. I had been abuse over the last 5 years. I was verbally abuse, psychological abuse, neglect, and physical abuse. Continue reading →
Control
Well first lets start off with what I did today! I had a awesome and relaxing day after talking a few people such as Mike, Anna, and Christine. Very cool people! Anyways I woke up this morning having a lot of back pain sleeping on my friends Futon! I woke up and started my route at 2 am. David didn’t drop off the papers at Liberty Tax till 3:30 am. The wait was painful! The herald is getting worse and worse every day. They are always late on their papers. While waiting I met the Gas Station guy! Every time I bought my son with me I took him into the 7 Eleven and bought Candies , drinks and food for my son. I discussed a little about what going on with my life. Then I remember he could be a perfect candidate . So I refreshed his memory to see if he could remember what I did everyday. After thinking awhile he finally said he remember and then offer to write me a statement. That made me feels really good. Then we exchanged contact info. After that I was so hype to start my route. I finished my route at 5 and went home to sleep for a bit. Then roughly at 5:40 Melissa called and ask if I could give her a hand with the route. I got up and dressed and went over to help her with half of McCloud and Alderwood. It took about 20 minutes for me to do because I did the route like 3+ weeks. I even write numbers on those tubes. Continue reading →
Today was a really tough day as well. Its been a week now that I haven’t spent more than 2 hours with my son. Also Nuong, my mother in law spoke with me about my son eating disorders. My son is taking a huge beating from this Divorce that we’re going through. During the day with Nuong, she said he doesn’t eat at all. I’m the only one that feeds him during the day so he eats with me. Then at night he eats with his mother through force using a Syringe. My wife trained my son since he was a kid. If my son refuse to do what she wants then she would hit him. She came across a syringe and used to stuff milk down him. I know she do love him dear too, but the punishment that my son has to go is no different from concentration camp. If you can literally imagine how my wife feeds him with the pictures I have attached then you would see how painful it is when you don’t want to swallow but you must because you’re choking on the milk. It’s the same way when you’re forced down poison medicine like in movies we seen or even from stories we read. It’s a sad way to treat someone like that especially your own kid. I wished I had the time to take pictures of my son being cut on the back. I wished I took those shots where my wife hit my son to sleep. But then it would be kind of odd to do that when the relationship gone fine. Continue reading →